{"id":5590,"date":"2015-09-25T09:08:20","date_gmt":"2015-09-25T06:08:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/?p=5590"},"modified":"2015-10-11T15:35:11","modified_gmt":"2015-10-11T12:35:11","slug":"avem-timp-we-have-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/?p=5590","title":{"rendered":"Avem timp \/ We have time"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Avem timp \/ We have time<\/p>\n

Avem timp pentru toate.
\nSa dormim, sa alergam \u00een dreapta si-n st\u00e2nga,
\nsa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou,
\nsa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi \u00eensine,
\navem timp sa citim si sa scriem,
\nsa corectam ce-am scris, sa regretam ce-am scris,
\navem timp sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam,
\navem timp sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin cenusa lor mai tarziu.
\nAvem timp pentru ambitii si boli,
\nsa \u00eenvinovatim destinul si amanuntele,
\navem timp sa privim norii, reclamele sau un accident oarecare,
\navem timp sa ne-alungam \u00eentrebarile, sa am\u00e2nam raspunsurile,
\navem timp sa sfar\u00e2mam un vis si sa-l re\u00eenventam,
\navem timp sa ne facem prieteni, sa-i pierdem,
\navem timp sa primim lectii si sa le uitam dupa-aceea,
\navem timp sa primim daruri si sa nu le-ntelegem.
\nAvem timp pentru toate.
\nNu e timp doar pentru putina tandrete.
\nC\u00e2nd sa facem si asta – murim.
\nAm \u00eenvatat unele lucruri \u00een viata pe care vi le \u00eempartasesc si voua!!
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca
\ntot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita.
\nRestul… depinde de ceilalti.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca oric\u00e2t mi-ar pasa mie
\naltora s-ar putea sa nu le pese.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca dureaza ani sa c\u00e2stigi \u00eencredere
\nsi ca doar \u00een c\u00e2teva secunde poti sa o pierzi.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca nu conteaza CE ai \u00een viata
\nci PE CINE ai.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca te descurci si ti-e de folos farmecul cca. 15 minute
\ndupa aceea, \u00eensa, ar fi bine sa stii ceva.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot altii mai bine sa faca
\nci cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca nu conteaza ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpla oamenilor
\nci conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca oricum ai taia
\norice lucru are doua fete.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu cuvinte calde
\ns-ar putea sa fie ultima oara c\u00e2nd ii vezi.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca poti continua \u00eenca mult timp
\ndupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca EROI sunt cei care fac ce trebuie, c\u00e2nd trebuie
\nindiferent de consecinte.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc
\ndar nu stiu s-o arate.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca atunci c\u00e2nd sunt suparat am dreptul sa fiu suparat
\ndar nu am dreptul sa fiu si rau.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe chiar si la distanta
\niar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca, daca cineva nu te iubeste cum ai vrea tu
\nnu \u00eenseamna ca nu te iubeste din tot sufletul.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca indiferent c\u00e2t de bun iti este un prieten
\noricum te va rani din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd,
\niar tu trebuie sa-l ierti pentru asta.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca nu este \u00eentotdeauna de ajuns sa fii iertat de altii
\ncateodata trebuie sa \u00eenveti sa te ierti pe tine \u00eensuti.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca indiferent c\u00e2t de mult suferi,
\nlumea nu se va opri \u00een loc pentru durerea ta.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca trecutul si circumstantele ti-ar putea influenta personalitatea
\ndar ca TU esti responsabil pentru ceea ce devii.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca, daca doi oameni se cearta, nu \u00eenseamna ca nu se iubesc
\nsi nici faptul ca nu se cearta nu dovedeste ca se iubesc.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca uneori trebuie sa pui persoana pe primul loc
\nsi nu faptele sale.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca doi oameni pot privi acelasi lucru
\nsi pot vedea ceva total diferit.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca indiferent de consecinte
\ncei care sunt cinstiti cu ei \u00eensisi ajung mai departe \u00een viata.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca viata \u00eeti poate fi schimbata \u00een c\u00e2teva ore
\nde catre oameni care nici nu te cunosc.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca si atunci c\u00e2nd crezi ca nu mai ai nimic de dat
\nc\u00e2nd te striga un prieten vei gasi puterea de a-l ajuta.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca scrisul ca si vorbitul
\npoate linisti durerile sufletesti.
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca oamenii la care tii cel mai mult
\n\u00eeti sunt luati prea repede…
\nAm \u00eenvatat ca este prea greu sa-ti dai seama
\nunde sa tragi linie \u00eentre a fi amabil, a nu rani oamenii si a-ti sustine parerile.
\nAm \u00eenvatat sa iubesc
\nca sa pot sa fiu iub\u00eft.<\/p>\n

OCTAVIAN PALER<\/p>\n

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We have time<\/p>\n

We have time for everything
\nto sleep, to run right and left,
\nto regret our mistakes and to mistake again,
\nto judge others and to absolve
\nourselves,
\nwe have time to read and write,
\nto correct what we wrote,\u00a0 to regret what we wrote,
\nwe have time to make projects and to not respect them,
\nwe have time to create illusions and to stir
\ntheir ashes later.<\/p>\n

We have time for ambitions and illnesses,
\nto blame the destiny and the details,
\nwe have time to watch the clouds, the advertisements or an accident
\nrandomly,
\nwe have time to\u00a0 banish our questions,
\nto delay the answers,
\nwe have time to crash a dream and to reinvent it,
\nwe have time to make friends, to lose them,
\nwe have time to take lessons and to forget them
\nafterwards,
\nwe have time to receive presents and to not understand them.
\nWe have time for everything.<\/p>\n

There is no time only for a little tenderness.
\nWhen we are about to do this also, we die.<\/p>\n

I have learnt some things in life which
\nI will share with you!!
\nI\u2019ve learnt that you cannot make someone love you
\nAll you can do is to be a lovable person.
\nThe rest…depends on others.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it matters not how much I care.
\nOthers couldn\u2019t care less.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it takes years to gain someone\u2019s trust
\nonly to lose it in a few seconds.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it matters not WHAT you have in life
\nbut WHOM.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that you can handle things by using your charm
\naprox 15 minutes.
\nWell, after that, you better know something.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that you mustn\u2019t compare yourself against
\nwhat others can do better
\nrather than what you can do.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it matters not what happens
\nto people
\nIt matters what I can do for them.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that however you would cut
\nevery thing has two faces.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that you must part from the loved ones
\nwith kind words
\nIt may be the last time you see them.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that you can go on way longer
\nafter you said that you can\u2019t anymore.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that heroes are those who do what they have to do,
\nwhen they have to do it
\nin spite of the consequences.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that there are people who love you
\nbut they don\u2019t know how to show it.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that when I am upset I have THE RIGHT
\nto be upset
\nbut I have no right to be mean.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that the true friendship continues to exist
\nin spite of the distance
\nand this is valid also for the true love.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that, if someone doesn\u2019t love you the way you\u2019d like
\nthat doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t love you with their whole heart.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that no matter how good a friend could be
\nthey will hurt you anyway, from time to time.
\nand you must forgive them.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it isn\u2019t enough to be forgiven
\nsometimes you must learn to forgive yourself.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that it matters not how much you suffer
\nthe world will not stop turning because of your pain.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that the past and the circumstances could
\ninfluence your personality
\nbut that YOU are responsible for what you\u2019ll become.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that if two people fight
\nthat doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t love each other
\nand also if they don\u2019t fight
\ndoesn\u2019t prove their love.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that sometimes you must consider the person
\nand not their acts.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that two people can watch the same thing
\nand see something totally different.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that in spite of the consequences
\nthose who are true to themselves
\ngo further in life.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that life as you know it
\ncan be changed in a few hours
\nby people who do not even know you.
\nI\u2019ve learnt that even then when you think
\nof having nothing to give
\nif a friend in need calls you
\nyou will find the power to help.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that writing
\nlike talking
\ncould ease the soul ache.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that people whom you love the most
\nare taken away from you too soon…<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learnt that it\u2019s too difficult to know
\nwhere to draw the line between
\nbeing kind, not hurting people
\nand standing your ground.
\nI have learnt to love
\nso\u00a0 I could be loved.<\/p>\n

English version, Maria Magdalena Biela<\/blockquote>\n