{"id":2733,"date":"2013-08-16T16:45:31","date_gmt":"2013-08-16T13:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/?p=2733"},"modified":"2013-08-16T16:45:31","modified_gmt":"2013-08-16T13:45:31","slug":"unconditional-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/?p=2733","title":{"rendered":"Unconditional Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"zpage055\" href=\"http:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/zpage055.jpg\" rel=\"prettyPhoto-img\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2734\" alt=\"zpage055\" src=\"http:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/zpage055-250x250.jpg\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/zpage055-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/zpage055-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><blockquote class=\"sc-blockquote\">Unconditional Love<\/strong><\/p>\n<p> Like walking a tightrope, I strive<br \/> for a balanced view of life&#8217;s ride<br \/> But balance is not considered normal<br \/> most people come down either side<\/p>\n<p> Lemmings &#8211; we rush to take sides<br \/> do battle in wars that no one can win<br \/> the conscientious objectors are denied<br \/> held, on short rations, as if in sin<\/p>\n<p> If we choose to love inclusively<br \/> look at truth, walk in another&#8217;s shoes<br \/> we will be shunned, others fail to see,<br \/> judging what shows, expect their dues<\/p>\n<p> Often the abuser, was first abused<br \/> Oh yes, his victim needs love and care<br \/> but a cycle of abuser, using and used<br \/> renews if in judging &#8211; we fail to share<\/p>\n<p> the pain of the child in the perpetrator<br \/> he also suffered and endured. Perhaps <br \/> he never knew normal but daily torture<br \/> played with as a sexual toy. Slapped<\/p>\n<p> and intimidated, he learns to comply<br \/> until by and by, it seems quite normal<br \/> a way of life, why change? Why try ?<br \/> Condemned &#8211; no one hears his child call. <\/p>\n<p> It seems it&#8217;s compulsory to take sides<br \/> after divorce some side with the husbands <br \/> others firmly on the side of the brides<br \/> sometimes children are expected to stand <\/p>\n<p> with Mum or Dad. Is it not cruel to ask<br \/> a child to divide love in two and choose ?<br \/> When friends fall out, fight and shout,<br \/> try to keep all as friends and you lose<\/p>\n<p> for they think you side with the enemy<br \/> in truth &#8211; I see each One&#8217;s humanity.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><em>Gael Bage<\/blockquote><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-contemporary-poetry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2733"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2736,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2733\/revisions\/2736"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.magdalenabiela.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}